Have you ever tried to walk in the gumboots of a toddler for a day? Do you sometimes feel ''Toddler triggered" and wish you better understood them so you can meet them in the heart? Can you see the seen and unseen lessons the toddler teaches us?

Toolkit Toddlers (PDF)

Children of all ages are amazing, and toddlers hold their own unique blend of enchantment. Passionate and driven, emotional and curious, they have distinct needs, different from those in the infancy stage they’ve emerged from, and those in the preschool stage to come. Learn how to give exceptional care to our terrific toddlers.

Where so much of our society wrings their hands at the thought of toddlerhood, we need to be rubbing our hands together with delight that we get to spend our days with such amazing, vibrant little people. We need to match their zest for life with our own ZEST for this unique stage.

Toddlers get a bad rep. “Terrible” being only one descriptor of many. But we can’t buy into this, not even once ounce into it, if we are to serve our toddlers and the spirit of toddlerhood well.

We’re not here to ‘tame them’, to stamp out their toddlerness and get them to the next stage of development. We cannot see these crucial years as a storm to be weathered.

We have to see the magic in it, and shift from ‘taming’ to serving, from ‘curbing/managing/squashing’ to allowing and enjoying. This is what our toddlers deserve.

How we see toddlers will impact on how we respond to them. And this mindset doesn’t come from how our toddlers are, but from how we choose to view them.

Not ‘tricks’ up sleeves, but ‘tools’ from the heart

Our toddlers need to be able to be toddlers, and we need to be the adults worthy of companioning them as they go about their toddler ways, and their toddler days.

HOW WE ARE WITH TODDLERS CAN:
  • Stop them in their tracks, or SUPPORT them in their journey;
  • Hinder their exploration, or HELP it;
  • Prevent their growth, or PROMOTE it;
  • Pit us against them, or WITH them;
  • Squash their spirit, or NURTURE it.

If we know how toddlers are, we can offer them what they need.

Are you ready to...

Create an environment for toddlers that meets THEIR needs

Learn more about the important role of the toddler caregiver

Explore how to view the toddler through the heart lens

This is a resource for the heart! Care enough about toddlers and enrol now. An investment of time and heart is always going to pay off



Will it “tame” or “train” the toddler and stamp out their toddlerness to get them to the next stage of development? NO.

Will it help you respond in kindness, build a relationship based on love and trust and nurture empathy and compassion? YES.

This toolkit will give you a series of dynamic tools and practical ideas and inspiration to help you understand toddlers and their needs and how to create a physical and emotional environment that supports their social development with patience and kindness.

Our big question is ‘What do our toddlers need in order to experience and express their toddlerhood?’, and we respond, prepare our environments and plan our programmes from there. It’s great for us all to remember that meeting immediate needs is the best ‘preparation’ for the child’s future.

You will learn:

Which ‘activities’ to offer toddlers

How to respond to ‘boundary pushing’

How to engage in quality interactions

How to work respectfully and cohesively in a team who may have different beliefs and styles

How to use collaborative language to create a collaborative mindset which will result in collaborative actions

How to stay positive with increasing pressure to meet regulations and criteria, rather than the needs of the children.

WHY IS THIS TOOLKIT DIFFERENT?

We have an experience for you. This toolkit is more than your standard ho-hum PDF you read and forget. 
Give yourself permission to be IN-joy with this toolkit.  To soak up the chapters, to connect with the content, to be nourished by all the nuggets, to reflect and relate to your own practice we have added:

  • an action plan with action steps

  • action cards for you and/or your team to collaborate on.

These unique Heart School style 'for a blossoming team' tasks, beanbag 'seeds of thought' musings and conversation 'branching out' statements will elevate ‘ordinary learning time’, to something more sacred. As an individual and as a collective.

HERE'S MORE TO HELP YOU CARE WITH KINDNESS...

FREE MINI-SERIES TODDLERS

Kindness starts with a positive view. Learn to look beyond the negative perceptions of toddlers to see all the magic.
Enrol for our free Toddlers miniseries here. In this mini series, we explore the intricate world of toddlers.

HEAR KIMBERLEY TALK

We have a lineup of webinars with edgy topics that have not been touched before and that will feed the heart ♥️ nourish the soul ♥️ and support the hands ♥️. Get access here.

READ THE HEART GUIDE

In our heart guides we explore the why, what and how of walking the heart path. These are our readers digest versions of our flagship toolkits. Get access here.

"Take a deep breath, then breathe some more. Lower your voice, then lower some more. Soften your hands, then soften some more. Find your sense of calm, then find some more. Open your heart, then open it some more." - The Heart School

The 'A Heart for toddlers' toolkit is included in our Infants & Toddlers Collection and our Premium Collection

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