“Use your words”. How often do we hear that being told to children? Very young children especially? It has become almost a mindless phrase that gets thrown out, with the expectation that our wee ones know what it means, can grasp what is asked of them, and run with it.
As we get older, the whole notion of wishes often gets put in the ‘hog wash’ pile. We sort desires into the can, and can't possibly happen, categories, and talk more about facing reality. “You wish”, becomes a scoffing term when someone touts dreams we deem unlikely.